So, I’ve been asked what a NOTfriend is. Mostly becasue I think the person who asked me was trying to see if they were a NOTfriend. I will answer this in two parts, why? Because you have to understand how the person is before they become a NOTfriend to understand why they are a NOTfriend. Here we go.
In the beginning…
First you have to understand, it’s always been really hard to get on my friends list. Honestly, I can count on my hands the people I would feel comfortable calling my friends. Not an easy feat to get on this list.
So when you first meet a NOTfriend, they are the nicest person you have ever seen. They talk to you, and let you text them, and just generally make you feel like they truly enjoy your company, which doesn’t happen often nowadays.
BASICALLY, this person seems different and you immediately care about them.
So after you are hooked to this NOTfriend, they have you in their grasps. You are trusting them and really feel you are getting close to this person. You have progressed to calling this person an actual friend and your friendship seems to grow stronger every day.
Then next thing you know, it’s like they switch the flip and suddenly don’t even seem to care if you are around. Occasionally they will become rude, out of nowhere. Therefore they gain a title of a NOTfriend. Because the betrayal is too big to not gain a title.
So my beautiful best friend just called me to tell me that I can’t NOTfriend the person I just mentioned. It sucks being called out. She says I need to give second chances and whatnot. Ugh. I need a new scapegoat now.
I am feeling better, but I’m also wearing my “Smiling is my Favourite” shirt to remind me to be nice. I got this.